Friday, June 1, 2012

Reduce Regret


Since I started riding the train to work I passed it every day twice a day.  It was a tree.  A giant of a tree that stood alone in the middle of a large park.  Not only did I see the tree briefly as the train accelerated but I would think, twice a day, that I should stop and visit the tree.  Months passed by and never did I stop and visit.                                

As fate would have it the other Saturday I was returning from a visit with one of my doctors [yes it’s true my PCP works on Saturdays] and out of the blue asked my wife to detour via the park.  It was time to visit the tree now dressed in her spring finery.

What’s the big deal about visiting a tree in a park?  Though the tree was amazingly large, though the feeling of peace while standing beneath the canopy was amazing, and though you could feel the ancient tree magic the big deal isn’t about the tree.  The big deal is about actually acting.  Though it took months I actually acted instead of just thinking I should go see this tree.

I find it amusing it took getting ill for me to learn that there are things that are good for all of us whether sick or healthy. 

Taking action on a thought is good for us because it reduces regret.  Gone is the thought “oh I always wanted to do that,” or “I wish I had fill in the word.”  Your mental curiosity about that pub, that bookstore, that tree, that place is now a new experience because you took action.  


So take action and check out that cute little pub.  Hell it may be a dive on the inside but at least you’ll know.  Act on going into that interesting looking bookstore.  Even if you don’t need a book maybe you’ll find a copy of the one you’ve spent years looking for.

Reduce regret and act.

Talk to you later.